I knew she was there to do a job, and so I was just that guy who was just by her side. I had one of my friends fly in for my wedding. And I’m like, ‘You see that car, that car, this car, that car, that car? They’re all following me. It’s dangerous. It sucks. It’s not fun, it’s very intrusive. And who would want that? No one wants that.Cris Judd shares with Oprah what it was like to be married to Jennifer Lopez back in 2001 and 2002. The marriage lasted for nine months.